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Saturday, February 26, 2005

i've been in a few frenships, relationships. felt the full limits of emo from joy, exhilaration and ecstacy to rage, frustration and incredible sadness. made up, worked the cruel avoider. bent over backwards, demanded unfair mileage. pleased. exasperated. loved. and i still dono jack about it.

over the last few yrs, a few of my close friends have endured the breakdown of their long-running and short-runnin r'ships. they have, at turns, cried to me (and into their pillows), spewed venomous anger frm every pore, sought cathartic release in their blogs, and hv, in general, nudged my slping time above the dawn line. one thinks love is forever, another believes love is manipulative, and the other can't see the point in it anymore - at least for now. No one has a clue.

but while we haven't found any solid answers at any of our archaeological digs at love, we have learnt lessons with experience and, unfortunately, age. Here's what i've found. ---no guarantee in love. people change, situations change and, most importantly, context changes. --- love will keep us alive, love will keep us together, love is all we need are total bullshit. r'ships take time, effort, and sometimes, medication. Love is jus the startin point - wait till u roll the dice. --- sometimes we love the r'ship more than we love each other. --- it's a dangerous thing to b lonely. --- it's not enough to love somebody. you have to like them too.

we love bcos we can. bcos we want to. sometimes it enriches us, sometimes it damages us. sometimes it's da bomb, sometimes it's a b*****. point is. love is like- it happens, so buckle up and strap your kneepads on. tryin to define it only distracts you frm view.

Editied frm some magazine. =x